"Hey guys, Well I just have to say that your site has completely changed my life. I met the girl of my dreams about a month ago and we have racked up a few thousand dollars in phone bills since then. Her name is Monica, and she is absolutely the most beautiful and charming person you could ever hope to meet. Just on the surface, Monica would be any guy's dream girl. She is not only physically stunning (a swimsuit calander model) but she is also amazingly intelligent, witty and sincere. Additionally, she comes from a wealthy family, which has only made our long-distance relationship even easier. I on the other hand, am no loser either. I really didn't expect to meet someone like Monica or more accurately, I didn't expect to meet someone of my caliber on a website. While that might sound egotisical, I am just clear about what I want, that is all. Anyways, I am a personal trainer, entrepreneur, and soon to be Harvard Divinity student. Those identities expose me to a wide range of people out of which I expected to weed through to find my soulmate. I joined Hot or Not simply to meet new people to chat with while I worked on my computer. I could have never imagined that one week after becoming a three-star member I would have met the woman I am going to marry. I really can't think you guys enough for adding the "meet people" option, King Solomon couldn't have displayed more sound judgement. And to all those people out there who are debating joining the millions of people already meeting their special loved ones, I beseech you to take a chance. I did and it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Thanks again!! "

"Hot or Not is not only a fun new internet idea, it has also helped me in my search for roomates for my apartment next year. I am sharing a 4 bedroom apartment with my best friend Kathy in Eugene Oregon. The only problem is that we needed 2 more roomates to fill the apartment and neither of us are from Eugene. So I went on to Hot or Not and used the meet me tool to find people in Eugene. It worked great and I met a lot of people, eventually finding a great roomate for our apartment this fall. Thanks Hot or Not!"

"I have to tell you that I spend way too much time on HotOrNot. I have even found someone in my area that I am interested in meeting, who is interested in meeting me. I love Hot or Not because you are not matched up until you both click to do so. The fact that everyone has to post a pic makes it easy to meet someone that you are physically attracted to and then send messages and find out if this is someone you're interested in. The ability to choose men only and gay men makes it especially easy for a gay man like myself to find what I am looking for. The ability to chose your area makes this site further desirable. I wish you much sucess with this site and I appreciate it!"

"In a week I am flying south to meet a match in person, we've talked on the phone because of you, and I've learned about a lot of really great music. We've exchanged more pics and letters via snail mail...stuff like that. We've become really good friends! A month ago I met a different match at a Frank Black concert and he turned out to be a really great person, we have plans to hang out again too! I actually gained something real in my life because of a silly little website that YOU thought of ! And I have you to thank for it all!!! At least you know that if you never do anything more for the rest of your life; you've made a difference in mine, and many others! Thanks Again!!"

"Jim and James, I would like to thank you for your website...IF it weren't for you two I would have never found the girl of my dreams. Anyways the two of us wanted to thank you and we'll let you know how the relationship develops if you like. Anyways, you guys kick ass, and people really do meet off this thing. She is from SC and I live here in NH and now we may live together in a few months. Anyways I couldn't be happier and we wanted to thank you guys for making it all happen."

"Due to the "Meet Me" system, I have found the woman of my dreams. We will be moving together soon and are looking forward to a long and happy life together."

"In a few days, I will be leaving for Flordia to work at Disneyworld for 7 months. Being extremely nervous about going, I wanted to meet some people that lived in the area. Thanks to hot or not, I've been talking to a few people on-line, with plans to meet up when I'm in Florida!"

"This is a great venue to meet people from around the world and other states that you might not every get to meet otherwise. It is amazing the different personalities and faces you can find on this site... I have to say that hotornot has put me in touch with (people) that I hope to maintain lifelong friendships (with)."

"Thanks to HotOrNot..I met the man I have been dreaming of all my life...we would have never met if it wasnt for you.. THANKS HOTORNOT!"

"i met a girl from this site about 3 months ago from clicking yes... It was fun... she called me after about 3 days of chatting thruough private messages... and then we got together a week later... she was awesome, but we didnt fully hit it off as a romance because we wanted two different things... She wanted casual and i wanted to fall in love... We are still good friends... And i thank www.hotornot.com for the opportunities they give us to meet others... Anyone out there want love?????"

"I am engaged to a very wonderful woman I met through your web site! She lives in France and will be coming to the United States a little later in the year, and we will be getting married within three months after she gets here! Thanks to your web site, I have finally found someone that I am compatible with, even across the Atlantic Ocean! As my fiancee says, every day is a miracle! Believe in love, it is real! Thank you very much!!!"

"thank you so much. I have met so many wonderful guys out there. And one of them happens to be my new fiance. We met here, on this website, met, and fell in love. I just wanted to say Thank you."

"Dear Jim and James, My husband and I recently logged onto your site together to see what was up with our favorite meeting place. Not too long ago we saw each other on hotornot and began chatting. A few weeks later I was leaving Minnesota to visit out in L.A. Four days later we hopped in the car, went to Vegas and got married. Thanks for helping us find each other!!!"

"Hot or not is really a great site. It's real fun to rate other people's pictures of course, but the meet me system is truly amazing! I met a really nice girl and we are both deeply in love with eachother. Hihihi.. You know who you are Nattie!! I love you!!!.... I am looking forward to spending some great times together with her!!!. Keep up this great site!!!"

"Wow, I don't even know what to say. I've met some amazing people off of this site. Including...well this really special guy. He's just amazing. = ) I wanted to thank you guys for that. I know in the end that if things don't work out I'll have still met a totally awesome person and I have you guys to thank for it. I just wanted to let people know that even if you don't agree with meeting people off the net in person, it can work. You have to have a little faith and not look down on it. You meet some remarkable people that you would never have had the chance to. Thanks again! = )"

"i matched with a ton of interesting people with the same interests as me. i still talk to about 5 of them on a daily basis. however, i did meet one person that i have been dating now for 2 months. he's so great and we definitely would never have met if it wasn't for this site. i never would have thought that i would ever meet anyone from the internet that wasn't a freak... but i was proved wrong. :)"

"I have to say that I'm very glad that I became a member of HotorNot. About three weeks ago I was in Ohio and I started exchanging notes with a girl from my homewown (West Palm Beach, FL). It turns out that she had my mom as her high school photo teacher and many of her friends were people I knew in high school. To make a long story short...I've seen her 6 of the 9 days I've been home and we're going out! Thanks Jim & James."

"I found out about this site by a friend and immediatly became hooked rating people and sending pictures of crazy people to friends. Then once the "meet me" section came on i met my boyfriend :) We are happily together for 3 months and are thankful we met each other :) "

"Hi Jim and James, I just wanted to thank you so much for your site. Through your site, I have met the most womderful man alive. I live in Ohio and he lives in Texas. He is moving here and we are going to be married. Thanks so much for your site. Good luck. "

"Jim and James, Your site does kick ass....I found the man of my dreams. He is so perfect in everyway, and he lives by me too! But thank you for helping me find my second half and my soulmate "

"Id like to thank your site a bunch. Ive always been skeptical to meeting someone offline. Ive done it but not been satisfied. But this year in March I clicked yes to who is now the love of my life. We talked so much and eventually our relationship grew into more. We met face to face a couple months ago and ever since we have been so happy. I love him with all my heart and I have Hot or Not to thank for it. =) "

"Where would I be without HotorNot? Well, I wouldnt have met so many awesome friends all around the world, thats for sure! Through HotorNot, I have started so many relationships online that I never would have had! I will keep this short, but I'd love to thank you for your great site, I wish much sucess to you in the future! Thanks so much! "

"While checking my email one day I found that I had people that wanted to meet me. I went to check the people and found that one of the guys that wanted to meet me sounded amazing! He said he was emotional, to a point that other men didn't dare go. So I clicked on him. We started corresponding by email within a day, and we just hit it off so well immediately. We believed right away that we were meant for eachother. It has only been a little over two weeks and we are already together. We are sooo happy! Thank you! "

"About three months ago, I joined your website, posted my picture and waited for the responses to pour in. I also began searching for my soulmate on your site at the same time. I took a chance on this one guy named Nate. I was ever so stoked to see that he too had wanted to meet me. We soon started emailing eachother and chatting it up almost everynight. We lost contact for about two or three weeks during that time and I was bummed. However we soon began chatting eachother and emailing again, and we even got up the nerve to call eachother. Although I live in NY and he lives in CO, it never kept us apart. We both discovered that we had everything in common from music, to tv shows and thoughts. I've just made the biggest decision ever, and thats to leave my family and friends in NY to live with my soulmate in CO. We are so happy together, and my dreams are filled with nothing other than thoughts of him. I swear he lives in my mind. Thank you so much Hot or Not for allowing me to meet my soulmate. I know we'll be together for years to come, and we owe it all to you. "

"hotornot is the best thing that has ever happened to me!! The reason for that is because it helped me find the best thing that's ever happened to me. Her name is Lauren and we met because she clicked yes and I messaged her back. I didn't think I was gonna meet anyone. At first I did it to just rate people, untill the most beautiful girl left me a pic. I wanted to know more about her so we started chatting. We kept chatting and calling eachother and found out that were perfect for eachother!! Now she's moving here to Denver from New York and plan to spend the rest of our lives happily with eachother!! So I'm dedicating our lifetime of happiness to hotornot! thank you sooo much! "

"I love hotornot!!! You guys are awesome!!! "

"I was very pessimistic about the use of an internet program to meet people and to be honest, thought it was very silly. Well...to my surprise I have found someone that makes my heart skip a beat in St. Louis. I am going to meet him in less than a month and hopefully, if we hit it off, I will be moving there. I just wanted to thank this web site for helping find that special person. If anything comes out of us meeting than you will be invited to the wedding. Ha ha...thanks again and I will keep you updated. "

"I met the man that I've been looking for forever on your site.. I just wanted to say thank you and that for all those who are skeptical out there, it really does work. "

"I want to thank Hor or Not for helping me meet and awsome person. He was living in Ohio at the time, but turns out we had all the same frinds at home, we just hadn't met yet. We dated for a while, but things didnt work out how we would of liked them to. But he is a awsome person with a heart of gold. I will always treasure what we shared. And he will halways have a place in my heart. With out Hot or Not who knows if I would of had the chance to meet this unbelieavable Hottie... Thanks "

"hey thanx hot or not for making my life alot better. if it wasnt for you i wouldnt have met my wonderful boyfriend Jonathan. Thank You so much. He is the best man ever. We have been dating for 3months.Thanx. "

"This website allowed me to meet...quite possibly the sweetest girl on this entire planet. After a few weeks of chatting, we decided to spend a weekend together...and it was just perfect. We live too far away from each other to maintain a true relationship (at this time, anyway). BUT... If not for hotornot, we wouldn't even know each other in the first place...and I am just thankful to know her. Thank you SO MUCH guys! Your website is the greatest! "

"I had just stopped dating, I was fed up with it. I told God that if there was someone out there for me that he would have to bring him to me. I still loved to meet guys and hang out with them, so I put my picture up on hotornot to see who I could hook up with. I went over this picture that the eyes just got me. There was something really special about this person. It said he was a Christian as I was so I clicked yes. He responded back with yes also. We started talking, we decided we just had to meet each other. I found out he was about 3 hours from where I lived. We made a date. Over the next 2 weeks we started talking a lot, we got so close. I believe we had fallen in love from the night we met online. Anyway, we finally met in person at an Amusement Park. It was like Magic, he was exactly who I had expected him to be. I reached for his hand. The second he touched me I knew it would last forever. We are now engaged. Thank you HotorNot. "

"I met my new boyfriend on this site over 2 months ago. We spoke endlessly for a day and decided to meet at a nearby bookstore the very next day. We hit it off instantly! So it's been 2+ months and I've never been so happy. Thank you Jim and James for having this site up, I may have never met him. "

"dear hotornot, i spend quite a lot of time on hotornot too. i am quite lonely at the moment, as a recent graduate, i'm now looking for work and it can feel a little isolated. i am happy that i have a 9.3 rating and it stays quite consistent. at this time you need all the moral boost you can get and most people don't respond well when you say you're looking for work. Some guys have contacted me and it makes me feel more special. maybe i'll get to know one of them. even when i do find work i won't forget that hotornot was 'there' for me. your site is there for everyone, i like that. i saw your site advertised on the sally jessy raphael show. thanks guys, keep up the good work. "

"Dear Hot Or Not - Thank you Hot or Not! Had it not been for your "Meet Me" section to your website I don't know if I would have ever found my current boyfriend now. Not only are we a happy couple but best friends. I don't know what I would do without Andrew in my life he is the very most important person in my life. Andrew and I come from different towns but luckily he goes to school not too far for us to be able to start up a wonderful relationship and friendship. I hope that Andrew and I will have a very long future ahead of us together. Thank you again for giving us the opportunity to meet each other through your website. I now cant imagine my life without him. Thanks! "

"Hotornot is awesome. It's fun, clean, and real and I even met the perfect guy through this site. I never had any intensions of meeting anyone on here, i just wanted an honest opinion of my looks and this seemed like the perfect place to go. Hooray, 9.4. :-P but then I met Eric through Meet Me at Hotornot. There's kind of a funny story that goes along with this because his picture came up quite a few times while I was browsing in the Meet Me Section and each time I just clicked "No" (He just looked too Italian even though he was a 9.9). The third time I saw his pic, i was like "Alright already!" And so I clicked "Yes" only so his picture would stop showing up, not knowing that no one I've ever known before would be so perfect for me. And vice versa. Thank you hotornot!! See pictures of us "

"This is the best site on the internet! I signed up because I was bored, not really expecting anything to happen. Besides, it's kind of fun to see what the outside world thinks of you. In June 2001, I met the absolute love of my life on here! The very first time we talked, I fell instantly and incredibly in love with her. We met about one month later. That very night I was giving her a hug, as I was about to head back home on a 2+ hour drive, and I asked her to marry me. It has been perfect ever since. I owe you guys one! Thanks HotorNot!!!! "

"Hi James: Just wanted to thank you for your website. I've only met one man from your site and he definitely was my match. We corresponded through email, messenger, and phone calls for 2 months and finally met. We both are envisioning a life together for the future. Thanks again. "

"Cori and I met on "hot or not" and we both fell for one another as soon as we met. We had been talking on line for a while. Once we met it was like love at first sight. We are now married and anticipating a long and wonderful life together. "

"I was never big on meeting people over the internet, but last summer when I came out, I realized that the internet could be a great tool to help me find some friends who could sympathize with me. I began making friends with people through Hot or Not, but was very careful not to make contact with people who were close in proximity to me. After a few months, someone came up on my match list from where I live, and something felt different so I clicked yes. Four days later we met and instantly fell in love. We have been through some major trials and tribulations in the past few months, but we are both in love more than we have ever been before. I have Hot or Not to thank for helping me meet my soul mate. I love you Dave. "

"Ive looked high and low for the perfect guy for me and i was getting so discouraged until I put my pic on hotornot.com and I met the most wonderful guy in the entire world to me and he is such a sweetheart. And i know that we are gonna turn out great and wonderful together. thanks hotornot.com im finally happy "

"I have SO much fun with hotornot.com, not just with rating and being rated, but by meeting people. I've met some really cool people. One of the guys I met is a musician just like me! He's a guitarist and I'm a singer, so we're probably gonna get together to write some songs and record some CDs... Who knows, we just might become righ and famous, all thanks to hotornot.com "

"i met the guy of my dreams on here ... i love hot or not!!!! its a funny story..we talk every day now and every once and a while he'll comment about how happy he is that he "clicked yes" to meet me :) thank you hot or not! "

"Hot or Not is great. When I first started out, I never expected to meet anyone. Well, I certainly did and even though we're not seeing each other anymore for time and distance reasons, he was someone I will never forget, and gorgeous too! "

"Bored one friday night with nowhere to go and nothing to do, I started to browse "Meet Me at HotOrNot" for 18-25 year olds in atlanta....and my gaze rested upon the stunning beauty that is danielle. After some debating as to whether or not I wanted to pay to meet someone....I did, and have been supremely pleased since. we extend our thanks to you guys. "

"This is no joke at all............ I actually found my soul mate on HOTorNOT. We are engaged right now and getting married in a few months. He lives in Missouri and I live in Mississippi so I will have to move up there to be with him. But he is so worth it. I have never been so in-love in my entire life. THANK YOU SO MUCH HOTorNOT! "

"Jim and James, thanks so much for your site. I recently met the most awesome guy after meeting on hotornot and chatting for two weeks ... and now we're dating. I'm on cloud nine. I didn't believe that guys like Randy actually existed. You've given me a new hope for happiness. I couldn't thank you enough. "

"Jim and James, I would like to thank you for your website...IF it weren't for you two I would have never found the girl of my dreams. Anyways the two of us wanted to thank you and we'll let you know how the relationship develops if you like. Anyways, you guys kick ass, and people really do meet off this thing. She is from SC and I live here in NH and now we may live together in a few months. Anyways I couldn't be happier and we wanted to thank you guys for making it all happen. "

"my wife and i met on your site :-) thanks for making the rest of our lives so much better. "

"Hey HotorNot, I just wanted to thank you for letting me meet the best friend of my life. Bryan and I have been talking for about a year, and we couldn't be any closer. I've been through a lot of difficult stuff within the last few months, and he is the only person who has truly supported me in my darkest hour. I call him my angel, and I wouldn't have had a soul if it weren't for your website! We share an uncanny amount in common, and we have plans to eventually meet. He is a person who will be there for the rest of my life. Thank you! "

"I can honestly say that hot or not has changed my life. After getting out a verbally and physically abusive relationship i gave up on finding love. But after putting myself on to the meet me part of this site i learned that anything is possible. I thought it was retarded to put my picture on here but I met a guy that has all the same interests as me and was also suffering from a bad break up. In a few days we are going to the marines ball in VA together and i have never been happier. So far we have been together for two months, hopefully this relationship will be a keeper! Thanks! "

"I originally did this kinda as a joke with some friends, but on one strange night, out of the blue, I sent an email to this very beautiful girl, because I had a strange feeling about her. I am very thankful that she wrote me back. From the moment that she said hello, the conversation was magical. we talked for hours that night, and I have to say that it was the best few hours that I have had in a very long time. It seems that we make a perfect match for eachother. we are making plans to meet up and hopefully be together like we should. Without this website, and the internet, this magic could never have taken place. what was at first, a joke, has now turned into future love. "

"I've got to hand it to hotornot, because of this site I've met the most wonderful girl in the world. We had to meet each other in person, I am so in love. I went to Florida to meet her and her family, she's more than I could have ever hoped for. Now she's coming to see me in the next few weeks. She's the girl of my dreams and I just wanted to say thank you, I never would have found her without this site. Love you Tami. "

"Just to let you know that we met through the hot or not meet me system 3 months ago and we will soon be moving in together. Thank you for providing a great service :) "

"thank you, also, for the options you presented. it's a super concept, a lot of fun, and i actually met my current boyfriend of two months through the site. we never would have met otherwise, so i have HotorNot to thank for being the connection. (feel free to put this in the testimonials area if you like) "

"I signed up for HotorNot.com a few months ago. I met one guy that I am now going out with. We talked for a few weeks then he drove down El Dorado to see me. We have now been going out for 4 months and I am TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH HIM!!! Thank you HotorNot.com. "

"Hello, Well I have to write you guys to say thanks! I have been dating various girls never really caring or wanting to get to know a girl. Finally i saw you site put my picture on for a laugh. And I started talking to my fiancee. 8 Months later I have flown to see her twice and she has come down here twice. Hours of time and thousands spent on phone bills and hours waiting by the computer to get a message. We are madly in love and i just have to say thank you for this site. Its given me the opportunity to know Sharla inside and out and to fall in love and find that special someone for me. Cheers "

""Hot or Not" has worked for me in by me just putting up a picture and beautiful girls all over the planet emailing me! What could be better!? Now I have free time to work at my computer instead of searching through countless competitor services to find 1 or 2 good looking girls. Sorry, I don't want to come across as super ficial as some people may think, but having someone that is hot and is everything else, is more likely to come closer to the perfect relationship that will last. This is my most favorite service! Thanks Hot or Not! "

"Your website has completely changed my life. I posted my picture as a bet with my friend to see which one of us would get the highest ratings. I never expected to meet the perfect person for me from the internet! I began getting emails from Dan a short time after we posted our pictures. We emailed regularly and then began talking on the phone. I agreed to meet Dan several conversations later. It has since been the best time of my life. I have never felt this way about anyone. We are perfect for eachother and will soon be moving in together. Thank you for your website, without it...we wouldnt have found eachother and knowing what I know....I would have been missing a huge portion from life. Thanks guys! "

"This is just a quick note to say thank you so much for coming up with such a great web site. Before Hot or not all I had was rowing and skiing, with the occasional drink at the weekend. Now I have met many interesting people, including my girlfriend Ethel. Thanks again!! "

"I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. I met the most perfect man bizarrely through the hotornot site. It all started with the music, and a mutual love of San Fransisco . . . the next thing you know my job took me to his city and our first date was an estatic blur, a perfect union of souls that seem to have been meant for each other . . . I don't know where our journey will take us but I'm happy to be by his side, and I guess we truly owe our meeting to hotornot. Who woulda' thunk? "

"I'm sorry to say that I won't be using the meet me section of HotorNot anymore... but that's because, thanks to the meet me section, I found a girl located in my area. Actually I found THE girl. She and I matched up a few months ago, spent quite a bit of time talking on the 'net, and decided to meet in person. We could tell that we were pretty much perfect for each other just from our 'net and phone conversations. When we met in person it's like fireworks went off. A few months have gone by now and she and I are very much in love and as happy as can be. We look at each other occasionally and say "Ya know, this is thanks to HotorNot." Thank you very much Jim and James. "

"I met my sweetheart Erin from this site. I been within feet of her all this semester at Ball State University in Muncie Indiana. I have fallen head over heels for this girl. I want to spend my life with her. I am soooo glad I joined up on here. This has been a great experience. I want to thank everyone at hotornot.com. You have changed my life and I am forever greatful. This is the prettiest girl and the sweetest one I have ever met. Shes my other half. Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!!. I reccommend this site to everyone. Wow I have got my juliet!!!! P.S. God bless the US and its fallen heros!!! "

"Hot or Not was just a random way to pass my time here at school, but then I met this amazing guy who was from my area, but was in Hawaii in the Army. We're probably getting married as soon as I graduate, but there was no way other than this site that I would have met him. He paid the membership fee just to talk to me, and I am so happy he did. All my friends are putting their pictures up now. "

"Its amazing what the internet can do today! I first was introduced to HotorNot as a fun way to get rated. I never knew how addicting it would be and how many hours I spend clicking either yes or no. I sure have spent a lot of time on hotornot, but it has definitely paid off! I met a fabulous guy and we started talking. With him in Minnesota and me in California, it would be highly unlikely for us to meet. However, after months of talking, I took a chance to finally meet this wonderful person, and I sure am glad! We had a great time with each other that it was hard to say goodbye. But luckily, he had to go to LA for a model/talent agency and of course, with LA only being hours away from San Diego, I had to go see him again. And once again it was another fantastic weekend with him. Though he's back in Minnesota, many things have happened and, in few months we'll both be moving to LA to live with each other. I just want to show my deepest appreciation! Thanks hot or not! If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have been so happy to be with this fabulous guy, Briar! "

"What an absolutely marvelous website! Randy and I met after talking only a mere 2 weeks, and we hit it off so well. I never in my wildest dreams expected someone of QUALITY to show up on a matchmaker site. Talk about "chemistry"! We are enjoying every minute of our time together. Thank you for doing this the right way... where people who are initially attracted to one another are the ONLY ones who can correspond. This is just common sense. Isn't it odd no one else figured that out! You guys ROCK!"